Why the LELO Sila Cruise Is Still One of My Favorite Suction Vibrators

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Editor's Note: As someone who was born and raised in India, sex was a very taboo subject — self pleasure? Even more so. That all changed when I came to the United States, and became a journalist that specialized in sex tech. I've tested close to 18 vibrators now, and I've realized one thing: Sex is not a subject that only takes place behind closed doors, it's one that needs to be talked about in the open.

When I first heard the term suction vibrator, I was curious but extremely skeptical. Can this really be the game-changing invention that mimics oral sex? Needless to say, I thought the trend itself was overhyped.

Sex toy trends run the same way skincare trends do, and many come and go (remember when every sex toy had to be connected to an app?), but a few last the test of time — and actually deliver on that “mind-blowing orgasms” promise. 

The Lelo Sila Cruise completely shattered my worldview on suction massagers (in a good way), and it’s one I keep coming back to more than two years later.

After testing a handful of other toys since then (for both curiosity and work), I know the Lelo Sila Cruise is probably one I’ll take to the grave. It’s not the flashiest toy on the market, and it definitely isn’t the cheapest. But if you’re curious about suction vibrators and want something that actually delivers, this is the one I still recommend — and better yet, it’s currently on sale for $50 off on Lelo’s site. 

Lelo Sila Cruise: Buy for $155.22 ($43.78 off)

What suction toys actually feel like

If you’ve never used a suction vibrator before, there are a few ways the sensation is different from that of a traditional massager or vibrator.

First, it uses air pressure to stimulate your clitoris instead of the direct vibrating sensation you may have been used to before. It doesn’t really feel like a vibrator, more so a soft, gentle pulsing that’s targeted and builds you up (either slowly or way too quickly).

The great part about suction vibrators, and why I think they’re particularly good for beginners, is that it’s not overwhelming on your body. The pulsing is gentle, and while you will still orgasm clutching your sheets, you won’t be left with that sore, slightly gnawing feeling you get after going one too many times with your wand or bullet-style vibrators.

When suction toys first exploded in popularity, dozens of brands rushed out their own versions. Some were great. Others felt like loud plastic gadgets with intensity settings that jumped from “barely there” to “absolutely not.”

The Sila landed somewhere in the sweet spot.

Specs:

• Build: Body-safe silicone
• Battery Life: Up to two hours
• Colors Available: Lilac, Aqua, Pink
• Waterproof: Yes, and submersible
• Weight: 105 grams
  

The reason I keep coming back to this toy

Personally, the biggest difference between the Sila and other suction toys (or vibrators in general) is how comfortable it is to use.

The wide grip is easy to hold and doesn’t strain your palm or fingers, and its round shape is both lightweight and discreet — if you’re carrying it in your purse, no one will notice or bat an eye, in my experience. Many won’t even put two and two together and figure out what it is. 

Where this vibrator truly shines is its wide suction mouth. Unlike vibrators that focus on pinpoint suction, the Sila easily spreads that sensation out, not overwhelming your sensitive area all at once.

For newbies or those still learning to explore the world of sex toys, this is a boon as the sensation feels calmer and easier to control.

It also has eight settings, which is surprisingly rare. A lot of toys ramp up intensity way too quickly, but the Sila builds slowly enough that you can actually find a setting you like.

Plus, since it uses air pulsation rather than vibration, it’s pretty quiet when pressed against your skin. It’s not whisper quiet, but someone in the next room definitely won’t be able to hear what you’re doing. Just make sure to turn it on only when you have it against your skin to tone down the sound.

Finally, the Sila is, of course, like most Lelo sex toys, waterproof and submersible. This means you can use it both in the bath and the shower.

Why it’s worth the splurge

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The Sila Cruise and Lelo products in general cost a pretty penny, but they’re some of the most durable of any brand out there.

I’ve had my Sila Cruise for three years now, and it’s shown no significant slowing down (pun intended).

The Sila is made from body-safe silicone, is fully waterproof, and feels solid in a way that a lot of cheaper toys simply don’t. The Sila Cruise also features Lelo’s flagship “Cruise Control” technology. 

Cruise Control saves 20 percent of your device’s battery for when you’re close to climax. The harder you press this vibrator against your body, the stronger the suction will feel, delivering one of those mind-numbing orgasms which will definitely induce an audible sigh — I speak from experience. 

If you’re planning to buy just one suction vibrator, investing in a well-designed one, like the Lelo Sila Cruise, can save you from cycling through a bunch of disappointing alternatives.

The verdict after two years

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After two years of use, this toy shows no signs of slowing down. Its battery life has stayed intact, it’s survived multiple baths and showers, and it's still as powerful as it used to be on day one of use.

Yes, it commands a hefty $200 price tag (when not on sale), but this option is one that’s built to last. Shop Lelo’s Sila Cruise now while it’s 27 percent off before stocks sell out.

Lelo Sila Cruise: Buy for $155.22 ($43.78 off)

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